How to Write an Obituary (With Examples)

This guide will walk you through the process with clarity, offering gentle support as you find the words to honour someone you love. Along the way, you will discover local considerations and practical advice to help you create an obituary that is both meaningful and personal to your family. At the end of the post, you will also find lovingly crafted examples for different races and religions, so you can feel supported no matter your background as you write a tribute that truly reflects their life and legacy.

In essence, when writing an obituary in Singapore you are creating a final gift of love. You should:

1. Announce the passing by sharing the person’s name, age, and essential details surrounding their departure.
2. Sum up their life through a short biographical sketch that reflects their personality, values, achievements, and the impact they had on others.
3. List the family members who survive them and, if appropriate, mention those who left before them to honour important relationships.
4. Provide details of the funeral or memorial service including date, time, location, and any special instructions such as wake venue, rites, suggested attire, or donations in place of flowers.
5. Add a heartfelt touch by including a message, prayer, or meaningful line that captures your loved one’s spirit or expresses the family’s sentiments.
6. Review the obituary carefully to ensure accuracy, clarity, and respect, then proceed to publish it either online or in print.
   

Now let us gently walk through each of these steps in more detail, with guidance and examples that reflect Singapore’s multicultural traditions. This guide will help you understand how to write an obituary in Singapore, one thoughtful step at a time. It shows what to include, how to shape the story, and how to find words that honour a life lived with meaning, love, and memories that will remain in the hearts of family forever.

What Is an Obituary and Why Is It Important?

An obituary is a public notice of a person’s death, often published in a newspaper or online, that also serves as a tribute to their life. Unlike a brief death announcement, an obituary usually includes a short biography and details about funeral arrangements. In Singapore, obituaries are commonly placed in The Straits Times or other newspapers, and increasingly on digital platforms. They perform several important roles:

• Announcing the Passing: An obituary gently informs friends, colleagues, and the wider community that a loved one has departed. It allows those who knew the person to come forward, offer condolences, and be present for the family. In Singapore’s close-knit circles, it also serves as an unspoken invitation to attend the wake or funeral to honour their memory.
• Honoring the Person’s Life: More than a formal notice, an obituary becomes a heartfelt tribute. It captures the essence of who the person was, the love they gave, the values they held, and the difference they made. It helps family and friends celebrate a life that touched theirs in meaningful ways.
• Preserving Memories: In our multicultural society, an obituary also becomes a small piece of family and community history. It may reflect traditions, heritage, or community contributions such as involvement in a temple, church, mosque, clan association, or volunteer group. These details help ensure that the person’s story and legacy live on for generations.
• Helping in Grief: Writing and reading an obituary can bring comfort in a difficult time. It offers a moment of reflection, a way to honour the loss, and a space for others to share their sympathy. By acknowledging the passing openly and lovingly, the obituary supports the grieving family and invites the community to remember together.
  

With this in your heart, let us now gently walk through how you can compose a meaningful obituary, step by step, so that your loved one’s story is told with warmth, respect, and love.

Step 1: Announce the Death with Basic Details

Begin the obituary by gently announcing the passing with clarity and respect. This opening sets the tone and shares the essential details of your loved one’s final moments with sensitivity:

• Full name: Use the name they were most lovingly known by. You may include a nickname or maiden name if it helps friends and extended family recognise them, such as “Tan Geok Lan (Jane Tan)”. Some families also add Chinese characters or Indian honorifics as a gesture of cultural love and respect, though this remains optional in an English obituary.
• Age: Include the age at the time of passing, for instance “75 years old”. While commonly used, it can be left out if the family prefers privacy.
• Date and place of death: Share when and where they left us. For example, “passed away peacefully on 5 January 2025 at Singapore General Hospital”. Many families choose gentle phrases such as “passed away peacefully” or, for Christian families, “went home to be with the Lord”. If the passing was sudden or came after a long illness, you may mention it softly, though the specific cause of death is always optional and entirely a family decision. It is perfectly alright to keep these details private if that feels more comfortable.

This announcement may be expressed in one simple sentence. For example: “Lim Siew Mei, 68, passed away peacefully on 2 December 2025 in her home, surrounded by family.”

Immediately after the main announcement, many obituaries include a brief note about the funeral wake or service. For example, you might add: “Wake will be held at Block 345 Clementi Ave 5 from 3 to 7 December, with nightly prayers at 8pm.” If your obituary is longer or more detailed, you may choose to share the funeral service information in a later section instead. At this stage, the goal is simply to let readers know who has passed and when and where, expressed with gentleness and clarity.

Gentle Reminder: When writing for a public audience, avoid including highly personal details such as home addresses or identification numbers. For privacy and security, it is best not to list the full home address.

Step 2: Provide a Brief Biographical Sketch

After announcing the passing, the next part of the obituary gently reflects on the most meaningful aspects of the person’s life. This section serves as a brief biographical sketch or tribute that helps readers understand who the deceased was and the legacy they leave behind.

Focus on moments and qualities that truly capture their spirit. You may include:

• Birth details: You can share where the person was born or raised, especially if it forms an important part of their identity. For example, “Born in Penang in 1940,” or “a cherished lifelong resident of Toa Payoh.”
• Major life events or achievements: Mention milestones, accomplishments, careers, or contributions that shaped their life. Did they serve in National Service, build a long career, or devote themselves to community work. For instance: “He was a devoted teacher at Poi Ching School for forty years,” or “She founded a charity that brought hope to underprivileged children.”
• Personality and interests: Share the passions, habits, or traits that made them uniquely loved. “An avid gardener, she filled her home with the soft colours of her orchids,” or “His warm humour and gentle nature brightened the days of everyone he met.”
• Values or impact: If space permits, note the difference they made in the lives of family, friends, or the community. “Her kindness and generosity touched countless hearts,” or “He will always be remembered for his steadfast devotion to family and faith.”

Keep this section concise. A few heartfelt sentences are often enough, especially for newspaper obituaries where space is limited and families are usually restricted to about two hundred to three hundred words. If you prefer to share a longer tribute with fuller stories and memories, it is often more meaningful to do so on an online obituary page, where you have room to express everything you wish to say. This is your chance to honour what made your loved one truly special, so choose memories and qualities that reflect their essence in the most genuine way.

Gentle Reminder: If the obituary is meant for print, remember that newspapers such as The Straits Times charge by line or word. A basic announcement may allow around one hundred words, and longer tributes come with additional cost. You may need to prioritise the most meaningful information. Online memorial pages provide more space to write a fuller life story, so consider preparing a shorter version for print and a more detailed version for online remembrance.

Step 3: List the Surviving Family Members

It is customary for an obituary to include the names of close surviving relatives. This acknowledges the loved ones who remain and honours the relationships that shaped the deceased’s life. It also offers readers a glimpse into the family circle that surrounded them with love.

Typically, immediate family members are mentioned first:

• Spouse: For example, “Beloved husband of Tan Mei Ling,” or “Wife: Tan Mei Ling.” This honours the person who shared the closest journey in life with them.
• Children: List sons and daughters, and their spouses if you wish, either in order of age or simply by name. You may write “devoted father of John and Mary,” or “children: John (Jane) and Mary (Alex).” This acknowledges the bond they shared as a parent.
• Grandchildren: If grandchildren were an important part of their life, you may note the number of grandchildren, such as “proud grandfather of five grandchildren,” or list some names if meaningful.
• Parents and siblings: If the deceased was younger or especially close to their parents or siblings, you may include them. For instance, “Cherished son of Mdm Lee Ah Mooi,” or “dear brother of David and Susan.” In Singapore, some families also mention both surviving and late parents, such as “son of the late Mr and Mrs Tan,” to honour heritage and lineage.

There is no need to list every single relative. Focus on the closest loved ones. Many families end this section with a warm phrase such as “and loved by all his family and friends,” which gently includes everyone who may not be named individually.

Example: “He is survived by his wife, Lim Mei Ling, children, Kevin and Clara, and two grandchildren, and loved by all his family and friends. He was preceded in death by his elder brother, Michael.”

This example also gently notes a family member who passed earlier. Including those who preceded the deceased, such as a late spouse or parent, is optional and can be added if it feels appropriate for the family.

Listing survivors not only identifies the loved ones who remain but also serves as a tribute to the circle of support that will continue carrying the person’s memory forward. Ensure that names are spelled correctly and relationships are clearly stated. Some families prefer writing this in a narrative style, while others use a short list or paragraph.

Gentle Reminder: Be thoughtful when deciding how to list family members. For blended families, you may include step children or beloved in laws. If the deceased had a lifelong friend or companion who played a significant role, you may acknowledge them as well. Keep the focus on love, respect, and remembrance. An obituary should never be used to highlight conflicts or strained relationships.

Step 4: Add Funeral and Memorial Service Information

An obituary usually shares the essential details of the funeral arrangements so that friends, colleagues, and the wider community know how to pay their respects or offer condolences. In Singapore, this is especially meaningful because many people will visit the wake after seeing the notice.

Include the following key information if it applies:

• Wake or Funeral Service Date and Time: State clearly when the wake or funeral will take place. For example, “Wake held from 3 December to 7 December 2025 with nightly prayers at 8pm.” If there is a service or mass, include the exact date and time. For example, “Funeral service on 8 December 2025 at 10am.”
• Location: Provide the venue details. This may be a funeral parlour, church, void deck, or home. For HDB estates, families often include only the block and street for privacy. For example, “at Block 123 Bedok North Avenue 3, void deck,” or “at Mount Vernon Sanctuary, Hall 2.” For church services, include the church name and general location.
• Burial or Cremation Details: If you wish to make this known, include what will take place after the service. For example, “Cortege will leave for Mandai Crematorium at 12pm,” or “Interment will follow at Choa Chu Kang Cemetery.” This guides those who may want to accompany the family for the final rites.
• Special Instructions or Requests: This is where cultural and religious traditions may be mentioned.

If there are specific rites or rituals, mention them briefly. For example, “Taoist rites will be conducted on 6 December at 7pm,” or “a Christian memorial service will be held.”

If the family has particular requests, state them gently. Many families request no wreaths or flowers, or invite visitors to offer a different form of tribute. A common phrasing is, “In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Singapore Cancer Society in memory of the deceased.” If there is a dress preference, you may also include it, although this is not common. If needed, you can mention that visitors may dress in somber colours.

Here is an example of a complete service detail section:

Example: “A memorial service will be held on 10 December 2025 at 10.30am at St. Mary’s Cathedral, followed by cremation at Mandai Crematorium Hall 3 at 1pm. The family welcomes all who knew him to celebrate his life. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Singapore Cancer Society in his honour.”

This example includes the type of service, the venue, what follows after the service, and a request for donations instead of flowers, which is a thoughtful and increasingly common gesture.

Including these details ensures that friends and acquaintances have all the information they need to attend or send condolences. It also invites the community to stand with the family in their time of grief. Always review the information carefully. Check dates, times, and addresses to ensure accuracy. If certain rites are private or reserved for family only, you may omit them or indicate that a portion of the ceremony is private.

In Singapore, many families choose to publish notices in both The Straits Times and Lianhe Zaobao to reach different communities. If you intend to place notices in multiple papers or languages, ensure that all details match. Printed obituary notices must also be arranged ahead of time. Newspapers usually have submission deadlines the day before publication, often by mid-afternoon. Many families also choose online obituaries, which make the process much simpler by allowing you to submit all the details digitally with more flexible and generous submission timelines. At Obituaries Singapore, a memorial tree is also planted in honour of the deceased, creating a lasting and meaningful tribute that continues to grow in their memory.

Step 5: Include a Personal Message or Tribute (Optional)

To make the obituary especially meaningful, you may end it with a personal touch. This can be a short message, a quotation, a verse, or a simple note of thanks. Although optional, this final section adds warmth and individuality, transforming the obituary from a formal death announcement into a heartfelt tribute that reflects the essence of your loved one.

Here are a few ideas for what you may include:

• A favourite quote or verse: If the deceased had a line they loved from a poem, a scripture reading, or a meaningful saying, you can include it. For someone religious, it could be a Bible verse such as “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” For others, a thoughtful proverb or gentle phrase that reflects their view of life can be used.
• A short loving message: This might be a simple line that expresses what they meant to the family. Examples include “Forever in our hearts,” or “He will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by all who knew him.” Even brief messages can offer comfort and capture enduring love.
• Expressing gratitude: Some families include a sentence to thank those who supported them. Examples include “The family extends their heartfelt thanks to the doctors and nurses of Changi Hospital for their dedicated care,” or “Sincere appreciation to all relatives and friends for their support during this time.” This can be especially meaningful when particular individuals or organisations provided kindness and help.
• Reflecting values or personality: A gentle, sentimental line can honour their spirit. For instance, “Her life was a blessing and her memory a treasure. She was loved beyond words and will be missed beyond measure.” You may also choose a simpler message such as “Rest in peace, dearest Mother, until we meet again.”

The goal is to express a feeling that resonates with who they were. Ensure that any message or quotation is respectful and true to your loved one’s beliefs and personality. If they were known for humor, a light and gentle line may be appropriate, though this should be used with care. It is always important to remember the wide and diverse audience who will read the obituary. Including a personal message is not required, especially in shorter notices, but it often provides a comforting final note that stays with readers. It helps the obituary feel complete, offering not only the facts of a life but also the love and meaning that surrounded it.

Step 6: Review, Edit, and Finalize the Obituary

Before you consider the obituary truly complete, take a quiet moment to sit with it and read it slowly. This final step is an act of love. It ensures that the words you have chosen honour your loved one with accuracy, dignity, and tenderness. A well reviewed obituary becomes a lasting keepsake for the family and a meaningful announcement to the community.

As you review the obituary, gently go through the following checklist:

• Check all facts and spelling: Confirm the spelling of names, including middle names and maiden names if they appear. Make sure dates are correct, such as birth dates, passing dates, and service dates. Emotional moments can make it easy to mistype numbers or overlook small errors. Check the age of the deceased, especially if their birthday was recent. These details matter deeply to families, and taking the time to ensure accuracy prevents confusion or hurt later on. Each correct name and date is a sign of respect.
• Ensure the tone feels loving and appropriate: Read the obituary as if you were someone who did not know the person personally. Does it feel warm, respectful, and true to their character. An obituary should find a balance between being informative and being heartfelt. It should carry compassion, but also clarity. Avoid language that feels too extravagant or overly plain. Let your words reflect sincerity. A gentle, steady tone often brings the most comfort.
• Privacy and sensitivity check: Look carefully to ensure that personal details that should remain private are not included. A full home address should not appear in an obituary, as the wake location already guides visitors. When it comes to the cause of death, remember that families do not need to share it if it feels too personal or painful. Many choose phrases like “after a prolonged illness” or leave it unspoken. Also confirm that there is no sensitive information that might be misused, such as identification numbers. Protecting your family’s privacy is an act of care.
• Length and format: If the obituary will be published in a newspaper, check that the draft fits within the publication’s word or line limits. You may need to trim certain sections, keeping only the most essential details. Digital postings offer more freedom, allowing the obituary to be written in a fuller and more expressive way. If you are using an online memorial site, follow their submission guidelines so that the final result appears neat and well organised.
• Get a second pair of eyes: Ask a family member or close friend to read the draft. They may notice small details you missed, suggest a gentler phrase, or remind you of someone important to include. This step also ensures that everyone in the immediate family is comfortable with what has been written. Grief is tender, and even small oversights can unintentionally cause pain. Having someone else read it helps honour everyone’s feelings and creates a sense of shared care.
• Compliance with guidelines: If you are sending the obituary to a newspaper, church bulletin, or community group, confirm whether they have any specific rules. Some publications have guidelines on how dates should be written or how names should appear. In Singapore, notices in The Straits Times usually follow a simple and clear style, but it is still good to ensure that your submission aligns with their expectations.

Once you feel confident that the obituary is accurate, thoughtful, and lovingly expressed, you may begin the process of sharing it with others. This moment often brings a mixture of emotions. For many families, it marks the point where the private sorrow of loss becomes a shared experience with the wider community. Publishing the obituary allows relatives, friends, colleagues, neighbours, and all who knew the deceased to come together in remembrance. It becomes a way of extending an invitation to join in mourning, to offer comfort, and to celebrate a life that touched many hearts.

Newspaper publication: You can contact the newspaper directly to arrange for publication. Their team will guide you through the process, assist with formatting if needed, and provide a proof for your approval before printing. Do keep in mind that newspaper publication can be costly since it is typically priced by line or column. Even so, it remains a meaningful way to reach older relatives, long time family friends, and community members who rely on printed notices to stay informed and offer their condolences.

Online and social media: Many families share the obituary online through social media posts, or messaging groups, allowing friends and relatives overseas to receive the news quickly and making it easy for others to pass the message along to the wider community who cared for the deceased. Some families also create digital tributes with photos, videos, and written memories to accompany the obituary and offer a more personal space for reflection. Publishing the obituary online provides an additional benefit, as it ensures that all friends and relatives, including those without social media accounts or who prefer not to use such platforms, can access the obituary directly and easily, helping the entire community stay connected in remembrance and support.

By taking the time to review and refine the obituary with care, you create a tribute that honours your loved one beautifully. This final step may feel emotional, but it is also deeply meaningful. It is one of the last loving acts you can do for someone who mattered so much. When the obituary is shared, it becomes a bridge between your family and the community, allowing others to remember, honour, and stand with you in your grief.

Gentle Reminders for Writing an Obituary: Do’s and Don’ts

Writing an obituary is something most of us do only once or twice in a lifetime, and doing it while grieving can feel overwhelming. Having some guiding principles can make the process gentler. Here are some helpful do’s and don’ts to keep in mind, including common pitfalls to avoid:

• Do be concise and clear: Use simple, sincere language and short sentences. The obituary should feel easy to read and understand, especially for older relatives or friends who may not be familiar with flowery writing. Avoid overly poetic descriptions or clichés that do not feel natural. A clear and honest tribute often conveys more emotion than overly elaborate phrasing.
• Do write in third person: Obituaries are typically written in third person, using “he,” “she,” “they,” or the person’s name instead of “I” or “we.” For example, write “She graduated from NUS in 1990” rather than “I graduated from NUS in 1990.” This makes it clear that the obituary is an announcement rather than a personal letter.
• Do maintain a respectful tone: It is acceptable to mention positive personality traits and even gentle humor if it truly reflects your loved one. For example, “her well known love for ice kacang” may bring a soft smile without crossing boundaries. Ensure that everything included is respectful and appropriate for a public audience. Remember that many different readers will see the obituary, including relatives, colleagues, and members of the community.
• Do consider the audience: Think about who will be reading the obituary. Extended family, old schoolmates, former colleagues, and long time neighbours may all come across it. Include essential information that helps them understand how to attend the funeral or offer condolences. If the family prefers a private ceremony, mention it gently so people know not to attend.
• Do not overshare sensitive information: Avoid listing full birth dates, home addresses, or other details that could affect privacy or security. It is safer to provide only the year of birth or the age of the deceased. Sensitive causes of death may be omitted entirely, or replaced with a gentle phrase. Families should never feel pressured to disclose private matters. Protecting the dignity and privacy of your loved one is more important than giving unnecessary details.
• Do not include financial information or valuables: An obituary is not the place to describe inheritances, estates, or property. Do not mention assets such as houses, investments, or valuables. These details are private and may attract unwanted attention.
• Do not air family grievances: Even when relationships were complicated, the obituary should remain a place of peace. Do not mention estrangements, conflicts, or unpleasant history. The purpose of the obituary is to honour the life that was lived, not to reopen old wounds or reveal private family matters.
• Do use euphemisms gently and consistently: Common phrases like “passed away,” “departed peacefully,” or “went home to the Lord” can soften the tone. These are appropriate when used thoughtfully. Keep the tone consistent so the obituary flows smoothly without sudden changes in formality.
• Do consider cultural and religious norms: Singapore is a multicultural society with diverse traditions. Obituaries for Chinese elders may include terms to indicate longevity age. Christian families may include phrases such as “Called home to the Lord.” Muslim families may begin with a traditional blessing. If your loved one held a religious title such as Pastor, Brother, or Ustaz, you may include that respectfully. Choose language that feels true to your loved one’s culture and beliefs.
• Do proofread one more time: Read the obituary aloud slowly. This helps you notice awkward phrasing, missing words, or errors. Ensure that every name is spelled correctly. Many families have had to correct small mistakes later, so checking once more shows great care.
• Do not forget to save a copy: Do not forget to save a copy. Long after the funeral ends, the obituary becomes more than an announcement. It becomes a piece of family history, a keepsake that future generations can hold in their hands. Keep a printed clipping or a digital copy such as a screenshot or PDF so that your loved one’s story is never lost. Publishing the obituary on Obituaries Singapore ensures that their tribute will live online forever, allowing children, grandchildren, and even those yet to be born to understand the kind of person they were. A memorial tree will also be planted in their honour, growing quietly through the years as a living reminder of their life, love, and legacy.

By keeping these gentle reminders in mind, you can avoid common missteps and create an obituary that feels authentic, respectful, and deeply meaningful. The goal is to honour your loved one with care while providing the information others need during this difficult time.If you ever need help writing an obituary or feel unsure about where to begin, you can always reach out to us at care@obituaries.com.sg. We will be more than willing to guide you with warmth and compassion as you honour your loved one.

Obituary Examples

To help you picture how the different elements come together, here are several examples written in styles common in Singapore. These provide a guide for structure, tone, cultural nuances, and level of detail across the major races in our multicultural society.

Example 1: Chinese Mother Obituary Example

Tan Ah Lian, aged 85, passed away peacefully on 30 November 2025 in Singapore. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, and friend, known for her generous heart and her love of cooking for family and neighbours. She will be dearly missed by her children David and Sally, Irene and John, and her four grandchildren. Wake is held at Block 863 Tampines Street 83 from 1 to 5 December with nightly prayers at 8pm. Funeral Mass will be held on 6 December 2025 at 10am at the Church of the Holy Cross, before proceeding to Mandai Crematorium Hall 2 at 12pm. The family kindly requests no wreaths. In place of flowers, donations to St Vincent Home are appreciated in her memory. “Forever in our hearts, her love and kindness will guide us always.”

Notes: This example follows a typical Singapore Chinese obituary style, featuring a clear announcement, short tribute, surviving family, wake details, a church service, and a simple closing message.

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Example 2: Indian Father Obituary Example

Ravi son of Krishnan, aged 52, passed away on 5 October 2025 after a courageous battle with cancer. He was a beloved husband, father, and teacher who inspired many with his passion for life. Born in Ipoh, Malaysia, he moved to Singapore in his youth and spent more than 25 years teaching science at Jurong Secondary School. Ravi will be remembered for his warm laugh, his enthusiasm on the cricket field, and his unwavering devotion to his family and students. He is cherished always by his wife Meena, his daughter Anika, and all his extended family. A Celebration of Life will be held on 9 October 2025 at 3pm at the Pavilion in Bright Hill Crematorium, followed by cremation. The family invites all who knew him to attend in cheerful attire as a celebration of a life well lived. The family extends heartfelt thanks to the doctors and nurses at Singapore General Hospital for their dedicated care. “Your life was a blessing and your memory a treasure. You are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.”

Notes: This example includes more biographical detail and an uplifting tone, suitable for Hindu, Christian, or secular Indian families who prefer a more expressive online tribute.

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Example 3: Malay Grandfather Obituary Example

Haji Ahmad bin Salleh, aged 78, returned peacefully to Allah on 14 February 2026 in Singapore. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, and respected member of the community. Known for his gentle wisdom and his dedication to the mosque, he touched many lives through his kindness and humility. He leaves behind his wife, Rohani binti Osman, his children Farid, Nurul, and Hana, and seven grandchildren who adore him deeply. The funeral took place on the same day, in accordance with Islamic traditions, with prayers held at Masjid Al Ansar before the burial at Choa Chu Kang Muslim Cemetery. The family wishes to thank relatives, friends, and neighbours for their prayers, support, and presence during this difficult time. “May Allah grant him Jannah and eternal peace.”

Notes: Malay Muslim obituaries are usually brief, respectful, and emphasise faith, family, and returning to Allah. They often include honorifics such as Haji or Hajjah, and mention same day burial in accordance with Islamic practices.

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Example 4: Eurasian Elder Obituary Example

Maria Anne Rodrigues, aged 82, passed away peacefully on 3 March 2026 surrounded by her family. Born into a proud Eurasian heritage with roots in both Portuguese and Malay ancestry, Maria lived a life filled with grace, generosity, and deep faith. She served for many years as a choir member at the Church of St Joseph and was cherished for her warmth, her love of baking sugee cake, and her unwavering devotion to her grandchildren. She is lovingly remembered by her husband Peter, her sons Christopher and Daniel, their spouses, and five grandchildren. The wake is held at St Joseph’s Church Hall from 4 to 7 March, with nightly rosary at 7.30pm. Funeral Mass will take place on 8 March at 10am, followed by cremation at Mandai Crematorium. “In God’s loving arms you rest, in our hearts you live forever.”

Notes: Eurasian obituaries often reflect Catholic traditions, include rosary details, and may incorporate elements of cultural heritage such as food, music, or community involvement.

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Writing an obituary is never an easy task, but it is one of the most meaningful gifts you can give to your loved one. Each race and community in Singapore has its own traditions and ways of remembering, yet the purpose remains the same: to honour a cherished life, to share their story, and to bring together the people who held them dear. If your words come from the heart and include the important details, you have honoured them well. Take your time, ask for support when needed, and know that through this tribute, you are helping ensure that their memory and legacy will continue to live on.

Frequently Asked Questions About Writing an Obituary in Singapore